RIP RON
I’m not sure how many people will read this now but this class has been a great support for me this semester with all the troubles I have had. Now things have gotten even worse.
Sean’s Dad died this past Sunday. The investigators say that he killed himself but we don’t think so, it wasn’t in his nature. Sean’s sister and mom are taking it really hard. Sean is being the strong one for them and not showing much but I can tell this is really hard on him.
I’m not sure what the point is of telling all of you this, its not like you can do anything for us but I just felt like it. I don’t expect a reply or anything so don’t feel like you have too.
Jessica, I will be chanting for you and Sean and your families at this time. Call on me anytime for anything at all. -Trey
Thanks Trey, any good vibes sent this was is really appriciated right now, we sure do need them. --Jessica
Jess I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, my condolences to you and sean and the whole family. I pray that the truth will be revealed in time and that you will all be strong for each other. We're here for you if you need anything or just a place to vent. -Meagan
Thanks Meagan, we need all the strength we can get at this time. -Jessica
Hey Jess, we are really sorry to hear about your loss. If there is anything we can do, don't hesitate to let us know. We'll be thinking about you and your family. - Caitlin and Brian
Just poured out some Rice Dream for your man...peace be unto him. - Cory
Thanks guys, thanks to all of you. There isn't anything that anyone can do. Now, I am mad at his mom, maybe I am just being selfish. I don't think he killed him self and I sat down last night with a few of my criminal justice buddies from high school (I was in a great program in high school) and we made a list of questions I want to ask the cops. It takes up a whole front and back of a page. I don't think they are doing their job, they just assumed suicide and are not looking into it. Sean's mom doesn't want to go down their until after the service and I know it is hard on her but all the evidence will be distroyed by then, the body is being cremated and I don't know what they are going to do with the rental car. If they didn't think to look into my questions, I may never know the answer, I will never know if he killed himself or not. I may have to go to a higher authority and talk to grandpa and see if he can get Sean's mom to go down their. I know its hard for her, but does she want to give up on knowing the truth, because that is what is feels like to me.
I haven't had a real father all my life, my grandpa and uncle did I good job when I was younger but now they are too old to fill that roll. I thought I was going to have a Dad again with him and I just want to know what the fuck happened to him. He was shot twice in the chest and it doesn't feel like suicide to me. He was a great shot, if he was going to shoot himself in the chest (which is a weird place to being with) he wouldn't have missed. I just want to know what happened and I'm scared I will have to live with these questions for the rest of my life.
Life certainly seems gloomy sometimes, literaly today. I do not know what it is like to lose someone close to me, so I can't comprehend. I agree that you are doing the right thing it asking questions when they might still be pertinent. In moments like this it is important, in my opinion, to make choices and to handle things in a way that will leave you free from later regret. I am just glad that Sean has someone like you to be there for him during this time. All my love to you and all those affected. --steve
But I can't ask my questions, and it is driving me nuts. I don't know how to make them understand that we have to ask them and ask them now. *sigh* --Jess
Wow, Jess, that is awful. I think you are right to ask questions, because frankly, what you've described doesn't sound like a suicide to me, either. I agree with Stephen that Sean is lucky to have you. Take care of yourself, okay, sweetie? - Caitlin
I am taking care of myself, you don't need to worry about that. I have had a few close people to me die and I know it does no good not to eat or not to sleep, it makes you feel worse. All of those people died of old age and that was a lot of cmfort, it was just their time but Ron still had a lot of life to live. --Jess
You know Jess; up to the point where I heard Sean’s dad committed suicide I hadn’t thought much of it. I thought he had had committed suicide and as all of us would deny someone we love doing such a heinous act to themself...but when I read that he was shot twice in the chest it seemed a bit odd. I guess what I'm trying to say is you're right for wanting to asking questions about this situation. In fact do so, don't take no for an answer. Don't know if this is my place to ask, but was he shot twice in the chest with both entry wounds within close proximity to each other? Is there gun residue on his hands or around him, but not on him? If so, seems characteristic of a double tap to the chest and left for dead. Anybody who shoots themselves in the chest where it counts won't be around long enough to shoot themselves in the chest again. Good luck and my condolences go out to you and your family. .:Kris:.
Those were some of my questions. I also want to know how he was sitting in the seat, which you can tell from bullet trajectory and where the gun residue is on the windshield of the car. It is is in a straight line, he might have done it. If not, then I'll have a hell of a lot more questions. I know the bullets were not close, as a good double tap would be close, but they are close like he might be fighting for the gun with the shooter. I think they were like 3 or 4 inches apart. Ron was a great shot, he was in the Navy for a number of years, if he meant to shoot himself in the heart the first time he wouldn't have missed. It was also with a .45 which is a big gun, which means a big hole and a hell of a lot of pain. I'm not sure I would have the strength to shoot myself a second time after the first one, I'm not sure anyone would.--Jess
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